It took me 5 years to get over the divorce from my first cheating wife and take a chance and try again. Only to meet someone get married and a year later get hurt again finding out she is pregnant with another mans child (I can not have anymore kids).
When do the law of avarages finally catch up and a hard working single dad, can finally meet an honest FAITHFUL woman? When does the trust finally come back? When does the anger finally stop? When do you finally stop beleiving that all members of the opposite sex are evil? When do you start feeling good about yourself again? As a short, overweight, not wealthy single dad it just seems there is no market for men like me. All woman seem to want the tall one with the lean and toned body and lots of money. So when do we as a society start seeing the good in people? When do we stop caring about what they look like and start caring for the the character within the person?
God this second divorce is harder than the first as with this one it was truly love at first sight. Something I did not beleive in until I met her. She was the first woman that I had met that did not care what I looked like, what I did, or what was in my past. She loved me for me. That lasted all of 18 months.
Your story is horrible and I can only imagine how hurt you've been by your two exes. (Ouch! especially #2!) Your loss of faith and trust in women is quite understandable, but please realize their are good women out there. You do deserve to meet an honest, faithful woman someday. Be patient and let yourself heal. Once you're ready to mingle, it may take time to weed out the bad seeds (you're an expert from experience!) but it will happen. I believe what goes around comes around, and good people deserve good things. Like prosperme said, just have faith.
I am sorry that you have been through this but remember that God never gives us more than we can handle. He will send you a faithful and truthful woman when you are ready to receive her. Instead of concentrating on the past, you must focus on the future. You must love yourself and realize that none of this is your fault. By getting busy improving you and dealing with your hurt, you can overcome the pain and move on. Yes, it is hard and it wil hurt but getting over it will happen. Just have faith my brother...just have faith.
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