Have you ever asked yourself, "Why did this happen to me?" I played by all the rules. Was honest, hard working, loyal and in love with my wife. So what happened? It's been 6 years and I still don't have any answers. maybe thats the problem?
I ask myself that often, I gave 7 years of love and loyalty to not only him but his kids and his parents and what did I get in the return. Him sleeping with his co-worker that he had the nerve to bring me around every chance he got. I guess the joke was on me. But its true what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
What if you were married for 33 years and had a 24 year old daughter and all of a sudden your spouse falls for your supposedly best friend and neighbor. YES!!!!!! You do ask yourself over and over again what did I do to deserve any of this.
I ask myself this all the time. My ex and I were happy at one point and then it all fell apart. ONce kids came and we stopped putting each other first, the marriage just crumpled and thngs got so wrong. Add this to the fact that we had some major financial disasters and that didn't help at all. Oh well, hopefully I'll get it right next time.
I used to ask myself that very question almost every day and then I stopped questioning why it happened and started focusing on what I could do to make it better. I then got myself together and met and fell in love with a wonderful man who I love and who loves me unconditionally. My advice is to concentrate on making yourself bettter so the same thing never happens.
