While you didn't expect that giddy, teenage feeling to last forever, you certainly didn't think all of the spark would leave your marriage completely, but, it has and now you're desperate to reconnect and make things right again. Great. The fact that you can acknowledge there's something wrong and are willing to work on it is a testament to your commitment to the relationship and a good indicator that the spark is still there, you just have to work a little harder to find it, that's all.
For whatever reason, you and your spouse have decided to forgo professional counseling and work on your marriage yourselves. The most important part is that both of you are committed to making your relationship work, regardless of the methods used and the route you take to get there.
While marriage counseling and couples therapy have helped countless people remember what it was that brought them together in the first place, helping them to rekindle the love and emotions they once shared, there are several alternatives to formal counseling to take advantage of, all with the same purpose in mind, saving your marriage.
If you've found yourself seriously wondering on more than one occasion, "Are they being unfaithful to me?" then take this quick, ten question quiz to tell if your spouse is cheating on you, or if perhaps you're just simply overreacting.