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Everyone experiences a myriad of emotions when they’re going through a divorce. It doesn’t matter if you made the decision to leave or your spouse. The fact of the matter is that divorces are a life changing event.
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Although infidelity can take its toll on even the most solid of relationships, it is possible to overcome the hurt and anger that ensues after the sanctity of marriage is compromised.
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Do you often wonder why some husbands cheat and others do not? Do you ever wonder how to keep your husband from cheating on you so that he doesn’t look elsewhere for his needs?  If so, you have definitely come to the right place.
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I remember my mother saying that marriage was like a bicycle. The man was the wheel and the woman was the spokes that held the wheel together...

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This article discusses what to do when your spouse doesn’t love you back.  How do you even move on from something like this?  You will find in depth tips and suggestions to help you deal with this difficult time.
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This article discusses what to do when your spouse doesn’t love you back.  How do you even move on from something like this?  You will find in depth tips and suggestions to help you deal with this difficult time.
 This article provides readers with tips for learning to love themselves in an abusive marriage. It includes tips like getting out, making a list of positive qualities about themselves and then reading it every day, joining a support group, and more.
Non-custodial parents pay child support in a variety of ways. Divorced parents should be provided with all possible options for making these payments. Some new options have emerged both in the public and private sectors.
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Considering Divorce
When do you know it is time for a...
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Considering Divorce
i am currently separated and I do not want to drag my husband along unnecessarily, but i...
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Dealing With the Hurt
My husband moved out on us three weeks ago and my life has been turned upside down....
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General Divorce Issues
Hi - I'm new to this group and I think I just need to know I'm not the only person having...
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Dealing With the Hurt
after 15 years of marriage my wife called me while I was at work at 4pm the week of...
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Dealing With the Hurt
help my mom is hurting bad from when by dad left her can u guys help ease her...
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The Beginning
June 24, 2009 at 11:21 AM
 I've stared at this blank page for a while now wondering where to begin, sometimes wondering why I should begin. I suppose I've joined this site and started this journal because maybe through some sort of cosmic fortune my seemingly inevitable divorce...
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Some People Have No Morals
July 01, 2009 at 03:44 PM
I thought I had this beat. I thought I was getting past the hurt and after 4 months of separation I could see the end of the tunnel that would come after divorce. She told me she wanted out because she was not happy and did not feel the same anymore. I...
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Ugh:
June 03, 2009 at 12:31 PM
My husband walked out on me and my two kids saying he has to find himself. I am devastated the kids are a wreck. I really do not know how to handle all of...
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just starting to get real
June 02, 2009 at 09:26 AM
I am coming up on my 30th anniversary, but this time without my husband here. He has found a woman ( she is married ) on facebook and hooked up with her. I know my marriage has been pretty rocky and I am not sure it was going to survive. The problem is I...
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