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Five Rules for Keeping the Peace with Your Ex It's no secret that being civil to one another during and after a divorce is often easier said than done. However, by making a conscious effort to keep the peace with your ex-spouse...
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General Divorce Issues

What to do when drugs are involved

My ex and I do not have a friendly relationship. I love my sons, and so does she, but that is all we have in common. I have been dealing with...

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General Divorce Issues

Ex Wife Stealing Son's Gifts

Ok, so every time I give my son any quality gift my eX wife ends up taking the gift from him and keeping it for herself. This is no joke! Bough the...

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General Divorce Issues

Child's Birthday

It is my daughter's 4th birthday in a few weeks, and I am having a birthday party for her (family, friends,etc.) I have invited my ex-husband, but he...

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Do you often wonder why some husbands cheat and others do not? Do you ever wonder how to keep your husband from cheating on you so that he doesn’t look elsewhere for his needs? If so, you have definitely come to the right place.

Considering Divorce

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The decision to get a divorce is undoubtedly one that has the potential to impact the rest of your life and is, of course, one not to be taken lightly.

Considering Divorce

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Five Rules for Keeping the Peace with Your Ex